Ladies, Ladies, Ladies, Ladies!!! Get your shit together!!.
If the man you are with does not treat you right, not spectacular, extraordinary or amazing, but just right, then something is wrong!. You're not asking for houses, diamonds, cars or anything of the sort, just a little love and appreciation, and you can't get it, then something is WRONG!.
For the females who aren't even in a relationship, yet have all the problems of someone who does and some, yall are stupid. And yes the rest of the world perceives you as such, so saying "I'm not an ass" or "No one can take me for an ass" is honestly, false advertising. Someone is taking you for a ride... Like an ass, without the commitment. And I bet he has a gf... urghh Stupid! You should be worth enough that someone will be willing to commit to you. If not, you're selling yourself short, get yo ass off the sales rack!!!. Don't put yourself there and then expect to be treated like Couture.
For those of yall in relationships. If you're partner isn't acting right by you, then no amount of tweets, pictures, or statuses can make him change!!! STOP IT RIGHT NOW!!! COMMUNICATE!! lay it all on the table and fix the problems, sort them out and find solutions, and if nun can be fixed, come to the realization that it wasn't meant to be. Because, the more pictures, statues and UNAVAILABLE statuses, isn't going to stop the same thing from happening. If you're sitting there hoping that one day he'll care enough to ask what's wrong, or your statuses, or pics will make a light bulb go off in his head, then you're wasting precious time that you will NEVER get back.
PLEASE LEARN TO COMMUNICATE!!!!!!
People grow in s good relationship,they thrive and prosper.But selfish men can be toxic and suck the life out of you.You could try to change him,why not try, but a time will come when a decision is taken by you, do i stay or do i go !
ReplyDeleteIT IS THE TRUTH, very good post once something isn't working for you even in the little something is wrong, for both men and women stop wasting time it is so precious, sometime you just don't want to face facts, the truth presents itself to you of the individual over and over but you stay wasting time, thank you gabz for the post, if people listen to it they will face reality for what it is. keep up the good work hon.
ReplyDeleteDon't save 'em Gabi. Lol.
ReplyDeleteJust kidding. You speak the truth, the whole truth, nothing but the truth.