Relationships are hard! Women voice their concerns on a
regular basis, leaving men with the option but to conform. Well, the men have
also voiced their opinions ladies. We’re not the only one’s having issues with
what’s going on. They’re just as exasperated with us as we are with them.
See what they have to say
Repetition
Yes, you’ve had the same argument over and over. Yes, he is
aware of how you feel about the subject but none of that matters because you
keep asking him over and over. He’s given you the same answer to that question
the first few times it’s happened. He’s now tired of recapping himself. You
obviously don’t like the answer he’s giving you and he unquestionably hates
that you’re inquiring again. This is why he lies. His first few unswerving
responses didn’t suit, so now it’s time to make up an alternative. He’ll do
whatever it takes to shut you up.
Women Claim to Want the Truth
In his eyes, if he told you the uncompromising truth every
single time, you’d be disgusted. The truth is, he wishes that you would stop probing
questions that you really don’t want the answer to. He spends time modifying words
and sentences to account for your sensitivity. You’d be crying on a regular
basis if he said what he felt, particularly during a disagreement. If only he
could truly let it all hang out.
Prying
Although a women’s intuition is something you think comes
from a higher place, he would undeniably beg to differ. In his opinion, you’re
just snooping. If you truly trusted him, you wouldn’t be looking, intuition or
not. He doesn’t care what you say. No
man wants to live with a CSI investigator. It’s not what he signed up for. If
he checked up on you frequently, you wouldn’t like that kind of invasion. He warrants
the same privacy he gives you
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Negatively Talking About His Friends
You have your friends and he has his. The fact that you
think his childhood friend is a complete bum, should be kept to yourself. The
same way you love and defend your friends, he will too. They were friends
before you entered the picture and will continue to be friends, should your
relationship come to an unforeseen end. In spite of what you accept as true,
men do understand loyalty.
Heart-to-heart Time
You have something to say and yes he may like to hear it but
not if you’re doing it during the game. It’s his entertainment /relaxing time.
He doesn’t bother you while you’re chatting on the phone with your girls, while
watching Basketball Wives. By the way, talking while he’s on his way to sleep
isn’t the best opening either. Talk time seems to occur at a lot of the in
times. Yes, he may even just be dodging you but, “we need to talk”, is girl
code for “you did something wrong and now you need to change”. He feels like the talk is always going to be
about something he needs to do.
Nagging
No man constantly wants to hear about his inadequacies. He
heard what you said and he’s working on changing. It’s not an overnight
process. Why must you persistently repeat the same thing? He’s feeling bad
enough about the situation. There is nothing else you’re going to say that will
drive the point home any more than you already have.
Restricting his sex
Some prefer massage. Others may light it up or drink.
Everything in the world is just fine while he’s having relations with you.
However, when “happy hour” is rationed, it becomes frustrating. He already has
to wait until you allow it to transpire. First, he gave in to idea of foreplay.
Now, he has to wait for you to give the ok that foreplay can be attempted. Here
he his now, wondering if women don’t have needs as well. Now you’re holding his
favorite body part captive. He can’t catch a break.
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