Monday 2 April 2012

Things that you shouldn't have to remind him of....Take note



Making time for you. Let’s be real: while he may not have intentionally avoided calling you, you also didn’t just naturally pop into his mind. And that says enough. Wouldn’t you rather be with someone who thinks of you all on his own?


Calling-Same thing as above—he could have responded to your text,even if that was his only five minutes of free time at work that day. Could he have plugged his phone in and called or messaged you when he got home? Absolutely. Did he? Nope. He’s probably saying, “I like you, but I’m not going out of his way to let you know it.” Is this the kind of relationship or ‘situation’ you want?


Being involved- You can’t teach a man to be more sociable or care about things he doesn’t care about.And it is a big deal that he doesn’t make more of an effort to impress your friends and family. But to him, it isn’t.


Forgetting you're even there when you guys go out. He should at least check in occasionally. 



Excuses, excuses
The harsh reality is, there are a million excuses for him to not do something. He was stressed, had a lot on his mind, distracted, his phone died, he was tired. But you know what? When a man really likes you, that trumps all. He may slip up once in a blue moon in one of the ways mentioned in this list, but if he consistently forgets to do those things, you may have to question how deep his feelings are for you

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