Confused or Denial

Damn for awhile now I've been seeing and hearing of people who "don't know where they stand in their relationship".... Ummm bs! 


You do know where you stand, you just don't want to accept/acknowledge that. 
If you're in and he/she is out. Then yall don't have a relationship. If both of yall have one foot in, then you don't have a relationship, unless that's what you agreed on. If nobody even brought up a relationship, and yall had a fling or some feelings, yall dont have a damn relationship, stop stressing like you do!!


And if you reallllly are confused then let me help


COMMUNICATION! 
Talk to the other person and find out exactly where he/ she stands, not where they are gonna be standing three,four years down the line. If you aren't satisfied with the answer, then you know! And don't let nobody bs you into thinking that "why we talking about this? I'm sure you listening to your friends"... That's really just "easing my way out of answering this so I don't f up some pussy". You have a right to know if you are wasting time. And a man who isn't wasting time with you, will have no problem speaking about important aspects of your relationship. 


You shouldn't be in a position where you're wondering about whether or not you're loved, or where you stand. Those are detrimental aspects of a relationship. So my advise, sit down and talk. And think with your head when making the decision, based on the facts and not with the memories or your "parts".