Common Sense or the Lack of it

Either common sense really isn't that common or when it comes to matters of the heart, people forsake it. 
For the folks who do not know lemme hit you up with some words of wisdom... Or sense, whichever . 


When you have to go behind your partners back to do something, speak to someone, check their email/facebook or phone, then you lack two very important things. COMMUNICATION AND TRUST!! 
Without these two things, you will have a dead end relationship. 


When you practice certain things from the start, it will end with those same practices. Sooooo if you give someone bad habits from the start, it will manifest and continue. If you let the lack of respect pass from the start, the lack of respect will continue throughout your relationship because that's just the "norm" for yall. 


If you make a decision to leave, stick to it, dont think that because your heart hasn't caught up with your head, that this means you should give it another try. NO!!!! If your decision was made based on months/years of the same bs, and the cons outweighed the pros. Stick to your decision. YOUR HEART WILL CATCH UP! WITH TIME AND SOMEONE OR SOMETHING NEW, IT CATCHES UP. 


The faster you accept something for what it really is, the faster you can make a decision on what to do. Don't sugar coat your shyt and make excuses, because that doesn't change anything. It only adds to the shyt!


Don't hold out for something that you don't even see happening. Staying a bit longer, won't change if communication took place many times and nothing has changed. He' she is not going to magically wake up and realize. 


Don't make one nice or kinda nice gesture change your mind. Damn some of yall don't even need to see fireworks, just a smallllllllllll glimmer of light, and you seem to forget everything that made you want to leave in the first place... Until the dust settles and shyt goes back to the way it was. 


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